Introvert-so what??

   

Why do we become so judgemental when it comes to people who are introverts?????Why are such the ones who have to be disregarded constantly??? Afterall,being introverts is a normal personality preference and not a disability or a disease.

However,such people are a minority hence others do not recognize this trait;it becomes difficult for them to keep up with the world dominated by the so called ‘extroverts’.The significant thing which one needs to understand is that they choose to be on their own as they want their own space..

Introverts don’t particularly  lead an unhappy life.Especially the college life which is expected to  be the most fun filled years of a person’s life,burdens them with the psychological load of peer pressure..Introverts  seem to be lonely,but deep down they live in their own woven world.They may be homesick,missing their familiar friends,family and places.In this case ,some new friends and for sure some new experiences definitely cheers them up.They often form an illusion of college life,the mystery and excitement combined,from various movies ,books,and also when they heed other,sexperiences.This makes them to strongly embrace the idea of frolic filled college life,but when the time comes to face the fun ,they shy away ,missing the “best years “of their life.Ofcourse, college is not about enjoyment.It is the time to truly develop into the person that one desires ,to discover about one’s likes and dislikesand most importantly to get quality education in order to prepare for the future work and life.

One should not worry about the extroverts who are busy running around and becoming an instant hit among friends.Infact ,he should be proud about the inner quality he possess and thinking about leading a happy life with his near and dear ones.Sitting alone is not an indication of a loser,rather the greatest people who ever lived were introverts to the core ..Introverts generally hesitate to make the first move under a given situation.So if it’s taking time to form friends,it’s just natural.Another natural trait in introverts is that they generally have a hidden talent such as reading ,writing,photography,playinginstruments,singing,painting,and many more.So one should indulge in his favourite activity and also try to showcase their talents to people around.Believe it or not,this is the fastest way to get attention and form friends.There is no need to compare your social life to the others.Everybody has their own way of living.It is not advisable to remain shut inside the room all weekend.One should be in places where new things can find him.Joining some casual activities that don’t require a lot of social transparency,where one can actually do something instead of standing as a mere spectator helps a lot in the long run.

Relying on friends ,be it a few of them,and being all the more reliable is the key to have great relationships and cherish the trust and faith throughout life.One should try to picture himself confident infront of others .When the people around are doing something that makes him feel interior ,he should just focus on his strengths .Instead of feeling frustrated and angry,he should make use of these strong points.One should not go along with the flow,but try to make a separate impact.The key is to convert the weaknesses to strengths.

Being nice to people and following the above mentioned ways will definitely  make an introvert’s life and college life as enjoyable as any extrovert and one can surely look back fondly to these years for the rest of his life.God has sent you for a purpose and nobody can be better than you in playing your role.